Liberty Theatre · Pagosa Springs · October 28, 2026
Scam-Proof Your Family
Start with the two-page handout. Then pick the page for the person you’re protecting.
Everything from the talk
- After the floodThe scams that follow a disaster, and how to find real help
- Your family planSix free steps, starting with a family code word
- Protecting a parent or grandparentThe scams aimed at older adults and the signs to watch for
- Protecting a kid or teenStep-by-step settings for their phone, games, and apps
- Words to knowThe terms you’ll see in the news and on report forms
- Every source from the talkWhere each number and story came from, with links
If someone is being scammed, or just paid a scammer
Do these things first, in order. The faster you move, the better the chance of getting money back.
- Stop paying. Stop responding. Send nothing more, even if they threaten you or say paying is the only way to fix it.
- Call the bank now. Use the number on the back of the card. Tell them it was fraud and ask them to recall the payment. In 2025 the FBI froze $679 million before it was gone, mostly wire transfers that were reported fast.
- Change passwords. Cancel any card you gave out. Do it from a different device. If a scammer had remote access to a computer, unplug it from the internet but leave it on, so evidence isn’t lost, and don’t use it until someone has checked it. A computer repair shop you trust can remove what the scammer installed and tell you whether the computer needs to be reset. If a lot of money or a business is involved, hire a security firm that does incident response; it can also save evidence for the police. If you can’t afford one, my free program, Cyber Pro Bono, may be able to help.
- Save everything: screenshots, phone numbers, usernames, websites. Don’t delete any messages.
- Report it to the FBI at ic3.gov and the FTC at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. For a child: report.cybertip.org or 1-800-843-5678.
Used a bitcoin machine in Colorado? Report it to the machine’s company and the police within 60 days. If it was your first crypto transaction and the money went to a wallet outside the U.S., Colorado statute C.R.S. 11-112-103(7) requires the company to give a full refund within 72 hours once you show proof of the fraud.
Phone numbers
- Someone is in danger911
- 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline988Call or text, any time. 988lifeline.org
- Archuleta County non-emergency dispatch970-731-2160For a scam happening locally right now
- NCMEC CyberTipline (kids, sextortion)1-800-843-5678Or report online at report.cybertip.org
- FBI1-800-CALL-FBI1-800-225-5324, or tips.fbi.gov
- Stop Fraud Colorado (Colorado Attorney General)1-800-222-4444Also takes price-gouging reports. stopfraudcolorado.gov
- FEMA fraud (DHS Inspector General)1-800-323-8603Fake FEMA inspectors or aid offers. Fake contractors and charities go to Stop Fraud Colorado.
- Colorado Bureau of Investigation, identity theft1-855-443-348924-hour hotline
- AARP Fraud Watch Network Helpline877-908-3360Free, for anyone of any age. Weekdays, 6 a.m. to 6 p.m. Mountain time.
- Archuleta County, abuse or exploitation of an older or at-risk adult1-844-264-543724/7 reporting line. Archuleta County Human Services: 970-264-2182, weekdays 8 to 4.
Most scams rely on four things
Urgency
“Pay in the next hour.”
Fear or flattery
“Your grandson is in jail.” “You’ve been selected.”
Discretion
“Don’t tell Mom. She’ll be so upset.”
Irreversible payments
Gift cards, bitcoin machines, cash handed to a courier.
Any two at once is a scam until you’ve proven otherwise.
Rushed or scared?
Stop. Hang up. Call back.
Close the pop-up. Stop replying. Shut the door. Then check it yourself, on a number you already have. Caller ID can be faked.
No real bank, government agency, or police department will ever ask you to move your money to a “safe” account, pay with gift cards or crypto, or hand cash or gold to a courier. If anyone asks, hang up.
If this happens, do this
- A family member calls, in trouble
- Ask for the code word. Hang up and call them back.
- The bank, the police, or FEMA calls
- Hang up. Call back on a number you look up yourself.
- A pop-up says you’ve been hacked
- Close it and scan for malware. Never call the number.
- A caller wants gift cards, crypto, a wire, or cash
- It’s a scam. Every time.
- A new online friend starts talking money
- Never take investment advice from someone you’ve only met online.
- Someone threatens your kid over a photo, on Instagram, Snapchat, or a game
- No trouble, no blame. Don’t pay. Keep everything. Report it at report.cybertip.org.
- Someone at the door offers flood repairs
- Get it in writing. Pay when the work is done. Never in cash.
- Money already sent
- Call the bank now. Report it at ic3.gov. No shame. The full steps are above.
Next steps
Hear about hands-on workshops
I’m planning hands-on workshops that get more technical, like locking down phones and accounts and setting up kids’ devices. Leave your email and I’ll let you know when they’re scheduled. They run through my company, Cyber Summit Co.
Talk it through with me
Book a free 20-minute call about your family’s situation. Tell me the specific thing you’re worried about, and we’ll work out what to do first.
Book a free 20-minute callI’ll never ask you for a password or an account number.
About me
I’m Taylor Banks. I’ve worked in cybersecurity since 1997, for clients including Google, Microsoft, the FBI, the NSA, and the United Nations. I’ve negotiated with ransomware gangs on behalf of the people they extorted, so I’ve dealt with these criminals directly.
Here in Pagosa I volunteer as a firefighter with Pagosa Fire Protection District and with Upper San Juan Search and Rescue.
More at TaylorBanks.com.